Three Critical Documents For Your Child When They Turn 18

Would you believe that once your child reaches the age of 18, you will no longer automatically have the legal right to help with your child’s medical or financial affairs? To ensure that you are able to continue to serve your adult child’s best interests, it is imperative that 3 legal documents be in place. These will also protect your child in the event of an injury, sickness, and incapacitation.

For example, consider the following:

  • Your 18-year-old daughter, while living away at college, suffered a fall and is rushed to the hospital
  • Your 22-year-old son, while away on a semester abroad or on spring break, is hospitalized
  • Your 35-year-old single daughter, suffers from an addiction and has been admitted in inpatient treatment

In each case above, when you discover your adult child is in need of medical attention, you right away try to obtain some information on your child’s condition. Unfortunately, when you tell the medical personnel your child’s age, you may hear that no information will be disclosed to you, nor will you be able to make any medical decisions regarding your child’s care. If this happens, an emergency petition for Guardianship will need to be filed at the courthouse, a lawyer will need to be retained, a hearing will need to be scheduled, testimony will need to be taken, and thousands of dollars will have been spent unnecessarily during a time that you will be taxed emotionally.

These tragic consequences can likely be avoided with these three legal documents:

1. General Durable Power of Attorney

This legal document allows you, as the child’s named “agent” to make financial decisions on your child’s behalf. For example, you would be able to pay bills, authorize payments, manage bank accounts, sign tax returns, apply for governmental benefits, and handle any other financial or legal matters that need attention. Without this critical document, court intervention is necessary.

2. Healthcare Power of Attorney/Advance Directive/Living Will

Your child should have a Healthcare Power of Attorney/Advance Directive/Living Will, wherein you are named as his/her “medical agent.” This authorizes you to review your child’s medical records and make medical decisions on his/her behalf. Otherwise, without this document, healthcare treatment and decisions will be made by medical personnel.

3. HIPAA Authorization Form

HIPAA, or the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996, provides, subject to severe penalties, that healthcare providers are not legally permitted to disclose health information to anybody (including you) about your child. Consequently, a HIPAA authorization, signed by your adult child and naming you as an authorized person, is so vital. It gives you the ability to request and receive information from healthcare providers about your child’s medical status, procedures implemented and treatment options. Without an executed HIPAA authorization, you would need to go to court to assist your child with their health matters.

As you can see, these 3 legal documents are extremely helpful, actually critical, in the continuity of financial or medical assistance that you provide your child. Attaining the age of majority has some benefits, but also carries with it the consequences of Pennsylvania recognizing that your “baby” has grown up and no longer needs his/her parent. Quite the contrary – as I’m sure you’ll agree – they may need us even more!

Right now, I’m providing a Peace of Mind Package for adult, unmarried children, which includes the above 3 documents for a fee of only $100. Having this paperwork is essential in continuing to be the best parent you can be. In fact, on my daughter Rachel’s 18th birthday, she signed the documents before she blew out the candles on her cake!

Please contact me at Beth@RondinelliLawFirm.com or 484-593-0032 or my Facebook Page, Law Office of Beth Forman Rondinelli, or through my website, www.RondinelliLawFirm.com.


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I want to thank Beth for sharing this valuable information with us. Here are a couple testimonials (including mine) attesting to how easy this paperwork is to get done and how wonderful Beth is to work with. 

Testimonial for Beth Rondinelli Law Office 

Testimonial for Beth Rondinelli Law Office
In an effort to stress how important this topic is, I spoke to two moms who needed to help their children due to different medical issues. These three documents would have helped them in their situations. None of us like to think about the "what ifs", but we have wills and insurance for a reason. We want to protect our family. These documents fall into that category. 
  • Susan is a mom of three who's oldest son was in a severe ski accident his freshman year of college. He was badly hurt, with many broken bones and a traumatic brain injury. He was put into an induced coma on the mountain and taken to the hospital in Colorado. His parents live in Pennsylvania and they did not have all the proper paperwork in place.  Susan believes they were very fortunate that her son was well cared for in a good hospital with staff that were willing to communicate with them. Where Susan ran into trouble was with the insurance company and taking care of her son's financial life while he was in the hospital. Because he was not able to give consent, the insurance company would not talk to his parents about meeting his medical needs. Once he was admitted to the rehabilitation hospital, they were able to have him sign the Durable Power of Attorney form. Had their son been deemed incompetent to sign the form, the parents would have had to go to court to obtain guardianship. This form was also necessary for them to apply for medical assistance, a benefit often needed with catastrophic medical issues. 
The last thing any parent wants to deal in a life threatening situation is roadblocks to your child's care. As a parent, you want your sole focus to be on helping your child mentally and physically recover. If this family disagreed with the medical treatment their son was receiving or wanted a different course of action, that would have been another enormous hurdle to overcome.
  • Our next Mom who would like to remain anonymous out of respect for her daughter's privacy. This Mom has a 22 year old daughter who struggles with mental health issues that are compounded by epilepsy, two conditions that require ongoing medication to maintain a healthy lifestyle.  A few months ago, her daughter had to be involuntarily admitted into a behavioral hospital due to a mental breakdown. Even though she was admitted for her own safety, she was angry and would not sign the forms to release information to her parents. Therefore, this Mom could only give medical information to the facility but could receive nothing in return about her daughter's state of mind, changes in medication, or course of treatment. This went on for three weeks until her daughter stabilized and signed the release form. This family has spent months trying to find proper treatment for their daughter and have run into many "information release" roadblocks with other treatment facilities, the insurance company, and financial institutions. 

I sincerely appreciate these Moms sharing their stories. These families have been through a lot and are sharing their stories to remind us that emergencies and accidents happen. We all want to be able to help our loved ones if they do.  


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